Forsaking

/fɔːrˈseɪkɪŋ/ verb

Definition

Abandoning or giving up something, especially a person or way of life, often with a sense of betrayal or loss.

Etymology

From Old English 'forsacan,' combining 'for-' (used as an intensive) with 'sacan' (to protest or refuse). The word carries weight because it implies a deliberate choice to abandon something once important.

Kelly Says

Forsaking is the word that appears in wedding vows—'to have and to hold...forsaking all others'—which gives it both romantic and solemn weight. The archaic quality of the word makes the commitment feel more serious and permanent than just saying 'won't cheat on you.'

Ethical Language Guidance

Gender History

Religious marriage vows ('forsaking all others') historically encoded women's obligation to obedience; women who 'forsook' independence were praised, while men's forsaking of other women was assumed.

Inclusive Usage

Use 'commit to' or 'prioritize' for neutral, mutual relationships. In religious contexts, acknowledge that traditional vow language may not reflect modern consent.

Inclusive Alternatives

["commit to","prioritize"]

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